Do You Always Need a Fitness Goal? The Midlife Breakfast Debate & Finding Contentment in Your Routine

November 19, 2025

If you're a midlife fitness newbie who loves naps more than a 5 a.m. green smoothie routine—welcome. You’re in good company. We’re realists with microphones, questionable breakfast habits, and very strong opinions.

Before we dive into today’s topic, quick shout-out: PodBeat—the free app that lets you add any beat to any podcast so your workouts don’t feel like a chore. Trap, funk, whatever fuels your treadmill survival… it’s in the App Store and Google Play.


Now, onto the show.


The Breakfast Battle: “I Don’t Give a Sh*t About Breakfast”

Some people wake up dreaming of omelets. Others… would rather do literally anything else.

One of us grew up in a cereal-and-Pop-Tarts household (shoutout to the 80s and 90s). So the modern-day expectation of a hot, farm-fresh, Pinterest-worthy breakfast? Hard pass.


Here’s the truth:

  • Breakfast is fine.
  • Cooking breakfast? Harder to love.
  • Kids who grew up on store-bought muffins will absolutely turn their nose up at scrambled eggs.
  • Some of us choke down breakfast purely because it’s “good for you.”


There are shortcuts, though:

  • Microwave oatmeal
  • Protein muffins (Kodiak saves the day again)
  • Egg bites made in silicone molds
  • Big-batch eggs for the week

And if someone else cooks it? Even better.


Are Fitness Goals Mandatory?

A listener named Tatum asked a surprisingly deep question:


“Do I always have to have a goal… or can I just be content?”


Short answer: You absolutely can be content.

But here’s where it gets real…


Maintenance Is a Goal

Most people think about:

  • Losing weight
  • Building muscle
  • Getting “better”

But maintaining—staying healthy, stable, and consistent—is often the hardest goal of all.
You’re doing the work… without the thrill of seeing rapid changes.

And honestly? That can be frustrating.


When Your Goal Is Simply Not Backsliding

Right now, the vibe is:

“How lazy can I be with food and workouts without gaining weight?”

Shockingly?
It’s going pretty well.

No heavy tracking. No rigid meal plan. Just solid habits built over years and a loose awareness of what feels good.

And it’s working.


Aging, Confidence, and the Moving Goalpost

Here’s the wildest part:
If you showed us our bodies today…
Three years ago, we would’ve cried happy tears.

But humans are humans.
Even elite athletes—Olympia-level athletes—are still nitpicking themselves, still chasing a next step, still moving their own goalposts.

You never really “arrive.”

So, learning to be content?
That’s the real flex.


Post-Surgery, Midlife, and Finding the Sweet Spot

Finally cleared to lift again (barbell only, calm down), the goal now is simple:

  • Don’t get injured.
  • Don’t do anything stupid.
  • Ease in.
  • Use your head… allegedly.

It’s not the season for extreme fat loss or strict nutrition.
And that’s okay.

There will be a time to push.
But right now?
It’s maintenance, healing, and letting life be life.


So Do You Need a Goal?

Not always.

Your “goal” might be:

  • Maintaining
  • Staying consistent
  • Not spiraling
  • Recovering
  • Building habits
  • Or simply… feeling good

Contentment isn’t complacency.
It’s awareness.
It’s choosing balance.
It’s knowing you don’t have to hustle 24/7 to be healthy.

And sometimes the healthiest goal is simply not losing your mind in the process.

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